Saturday, March 24, 2012

My Connections to Play



“Play is not only our creative drive; it’s a fundamental mode of learning.” ~ David Elkind (psychologist, author)

“Play is the highest expression of human development in childhood, for it alone is the free expression of what is in a child’s soul.” Friedrich Froebel (founder of the concept of kindergarten)

      In many ways play has stayed the same, children still go outside to run and jump, climb trees, play basketball and so on. The things that have changed are that children are not doing the outside play as much; this is due to the innovation of computers, internet, and video games. Children kind of play has changed they are not as physical as in the past. I am hopeful that families and teachers will encourage children to go back outside to become more physical and go back to the days when children dug holes in the back yard and climbed to the top of the highest trees.
   I was never an outdoor child but I can remember being outside running and playing, laughing and having fun. There were always children on my street playing something, you may have a group jumping rope and another playing hide and go seek. I remember not ever having any worries or cares. It was a very freeing time. Even though it was a good experience for me, I didn’t give my nephew the opportunity to do the same, I never encouraged him to go out and play. I think it was the fear of what might happen to him. But as of a last year I started to encourage him to spend more time outside playing and he does.

Saturday, March 10, 2012

Relationship Reflection

Relationships are important because they help to mode me into the person I am today. I have learned from both positive and negative relationships. The negative relationships have taught me who I am and what I stand for, what I really need from someone and how much I will take. They have made me strong. My family is the center of my life they are the most important people in my life. We are very close; actually the child care center where I am currently the director is family owned and operated. We have been in business for over 10 years. Most of our employees are family and those who aren’t have come to become family. I also have a few close friends that are very special to me. I can’t imagine my life without them in it. I have always been selective of who I let into my life so my friends have some of my own qualities. To maintain a healthy relationship there has to be a common ground, honesty and mutual respect. I treat my families in my center as though we are friends because we are in a relationship through the care of their children it is like a friendship. I want them to feel comfortable enough to be able to come to me for anything. I want to feel comfortable enough to come to them with anything also.  I am still learning and growing so I am excited to see some new impacts that new people will have on my life.